Do we share our journal? Make it a blog? I am thinking about it. From the journal entries I have sent to others, I know they appreciate it. People want to know how we are doing. It feels good to share. Open yourself up a bit for them to peek in and feel a bit of what you are feeling.
Maybe it would be good for people to understand. To know that when they see you, and you are holding it together, eating, maybe even smiling or joking, that that is just one little piece of you. To really understand the deep darkness that is inside. To share the memories and the loss. But, sometimes it's a little deep inside. Do I want it open to the world? Why not, as Tony says. Maybe by sharing the grief it gets a little lighter.